Live a wonderful life

Today i'll be talking about things that you can do to live a happy life. Try to love and accept yourself, even if others don't. Know who you are. You will naturally become an outgoing person if you can do this. . Be strong and continue to grow your entire life.
You don't have to like everyone, just show acceptance and tolerance and you'll be cool with everyone (extremely important in connections later on). Also understand not everyone has your world view, thinks like you, or has the same values. But one thing everyone does want is to be treated kindly. You can't judge anyone else because you don't know what that person has been through and how it's affected them. Not everyone reacts to the same situations the same way. Some have more tolerance than others. Judging anyone is purely to organize your own little world into making a little more sense.
And the most important of all is that you should stop caring what others think or tell you. Be yourself and decide for yourself because you are the one who will be living your life so you will be the best judge. Also you can learn through other's experiences but know that the situations are never same. Try to implement these and your life will be perfect.

Learn form Everyone

I would like to share a thing that i have learned in my 20 years of life. Whenever you are walking down the road you see a lot of people and all of them are different in one way or the other. Also all of them have a different personality and interests. Now the thing that i learned when i was in college is that every single person can teach you something or the other. And the thing that you learn might help you in tackling a problem, improving your personality etc. To prove this i will tell you a really good experiment that you can do to check this out.

When you go out and see someone in front of you just try to figure out the best thing that you find in that person. Or the thing that is the most noticeable in the person. By doing this you will learn something new and then just give it a thought and check if you have that in you. If not try to implement it on yourself as that was the thing that you noticed the most in that person and if you have that in you, someone else might notice it in you and it might help you out in some way or the other. Again if you know someone who you find good in something then try to get that ability i you so that you can get good too. So this way you not only improve your personality but also your abilities.

Try this and you will start to learn something from every single person in the world. I have learnt a lot of things from a lot of people and i live a better life and i am capable of resolving any problem that i face in life. So the ultimate result is that i live a wonderful life.

Believe in Yourself

In life there is one thing that everyone seeks and that is comfort. For that, people depend upon destiny and think that everything that happens to them is pre-planned and is for a purpose. They think that if they have never committed a crime and have always done good deeds then they will get good in return. But have they ever thought whether they get the food that they eat or do the work for it. This amazes me that after everything one does for himself in his family he still thinks that the things are happening because of someone else. I sometimes laugh at the fact that people pray before going to an exam or an interview when they know that they will succeed only if they know the things that will be asked. No supernatural power will come and help them out if they are not able to complete the requirements. Also when someone faces a problem he/she starts to pray to god or depends on destiny to get him out of the situation but have you ever given a thought to the fact how many times a supernatural power comes to get you out of it.
In your busy schedule just spare 15 minutes and think about all the problems that you ever faced and how you got out of them and just count out the number of times you did not have to anything and you just made it. And if you give it a deep thought you will realize that it is always you who takes an action. So why think of it as you destiny instead of taking the responsibility for it.
Now talking about the good times in your life. Again the same way think about the good/happy times in your life and just check how many times did you get happiness because of your own actions. And if you check you will realize that the answer would be "ALWAYS". So why thank someone/something for the things that you worked for.
By doing this i am just trying to make you realize that the actions that you take in life decide that results or simply make your life. Just try this and you will actually start loving yourself. If you start believing it you will be able to solve your problems easily and start enjoying your happy moments more than before. I do and if one person can do it then why not all. Afterall we all are humans.

Mind Power

Today i would like to share a personal experience of my life. A few years back when i was in 10th standard i was on my way to school on my bike. It was one of those days when i was going to school early as there was a test in the morning. Now as usual i was driving a bit fast and thee was not even a single vehicle on the road. I heard a truck coming from behind so i gave way to it and it overtook me. Now there was a signal ahead and the truck was in front of me. As soon as i saw it was green i accelerated a bit because i knew that the truck will be able to cross it but i might not be able to do the same. As soon as i reached the signal i saw the signal turned yellow and i was about to cross the signal with the truck in front of me that suddenly the truck hit the breaks really hard and i did not get enough time to take a turn and i hit the truck from behind. I went down in a second and i knew i was hurt but didn't know where. Like i said in the previous posts that i always give a lot of thought to everything and then take an action. Now i was lying down thinking of what to do but did not have enough time as i had an important test in the school. Like all the people i could argue with the truck driver or lie there or give a call to my parents. However instead of doing that i decided to get us with all the strength i had and picked the bike and walked back home. When i reached home my parents were shocked that i was even standing because i had deep cuts on my leg and one on my neck plus some bruises. I still remember that my parents told me that the first thing that i said when i reached home was i need to reach school before 8am. My mother put some antiseptic on the cuts and my father took me to school. There was blood all over my shirt and i sat there, gave the test and went to the doctor straight from there.
After the incident i realized the strength of a man comes from the mind and not from the body. And if you are in a problem then instead of wasting time blaming it on your destiny just think about it and find the solution for it.

Happiness

What everyone need or looks for in life is happiness. Now people pray to god to get happiness but they do not realize that happiness and joy comes from ones actions. You have to think about it deeply to completely understand this fact. However if you try to implement it you will realize that you start enjoying life as you will know that you are sole responsible for everything that happens in your life. By knowing this you will take actions according to your will and after thinking about it and checking all the possible results.

This is true if you try this. For a test just before doing something think of every possible result and then do the same. You will come to know that it not only secures you but also makes you happy or atleast you will not regret the action later on. I assure you that once you start doing this you will never be sad and there will be no problems in your life. And ultimately you will feel free just as a bird.

You make your own destiny

This is the truth of life. Some people might find it offending and some might not believe it however thats the way it goes. I will be sharing my own personal experiences as well but to start off i would like to tell the world what i think about life. Life as all say is not easy and the challenges and obstructions that we find in our way teach us how to make it a bit easier. And thats true. However one more thing that people say is that everything happens for a reason and it is what they call "DESTINY".

I find it really hard to believe that more that 80% people in the world believe in things that they cannot actually see or hear or that can prove that it is there. Also i find it hilarious when people blame "DESTINY" for all the problems that they are facing. That what i used to do when i was a kid. Then i started to think about all these things and tried to analyze them. I have always been a kind of guy that lived in reality. I believed in all the things that are in front of me and those that weren't i tried to find a proof to believe in them or test them. I learned a lot of things about life and believe me when i say ive lived a happy 21 years of my life and will stay this way forever as i have learned the truth of life and that is "YOU MAKE YOUR OWN DESTINY".