What is DESTINY?

What is DESTINY? 
Why do we have so much faith in it? 
What leads us to believe that something is already planned with our lives and we only are a motive to keep things going that way? 
Why do people lose hope when something bad happens in their life and blame their destiny for that misery? 

Well, the answer is simple. We are afraid. We are afraid of everything. We are afraid of new adventures. We are afraid of changes. We are afraid of taking new steps. We are afraid of losing what we have. We are afraid of losing people. And in order to overcome that fear, we believe in anything that gives us hope that nothing will go wrong and even if something bad happens it will not be your fault, it will be destiny. And that's when we lose control of our own lives and start depending on unseen things to lead us. 

Why can't we try to think of taking our own path and follow what we think is right? Why aren't we sure about our own thought and actions? People need to know that whatever happens in life is a result of your own actions or someone else's. It is not because there is a force that is bringing all the changes in your life. If you lose something, then you didn't work towards keeping it. If you are not able to achieve something, then you didn't work hard enough or someone else was better than you. So you just need to see that there is a reason behind everything and its not the destiny that plays its role. 

You make your own destiny.........

New Year Resolutions --- 2016

A Happy New Year to everyone.....Have amazing year ahead :)

And now that we are talking about new year, how can we miss talking about the new year resolutions. I'm sure everyone has a list of the resolutions for the new year and will work towards them. I have a few too. So what happened to the ones that you took last year. Did you make it through? Or did you complete a few and forgot the rest?

There are a few things to keep in mind when you take a resolution. It shouldn't be just a quick decision but it has to be a well thought list. A resolution can not only boost your confidence but also make you work towards becoming a better person and a strong competitor. So with that in mind, just make sure you go through the points below before you hit that list on the new year's eve:

1. You need to make sure you write down what you really want to do or achieve.
2. You need to make sure there is a passion behind each one of the list items.
3. You need to make sure you have thought about each and have a plan ready to achieve the targets.
4. You need to make sure you only choose enough to not over stress you or that you don't have sufficient time for.
5. And the last is that you need to make sure you are ready to get your ass off that couch and finish what you plan to start.

Well, that/s about it. You go through these pointers and create that list and you are good to go. Make this New Year worth it......