What is DESTINY?

What is DESTINY? 
Why do we have so much faith in it? 
What leads us to believe that something is already planned with our lives and we only are a motive to keep things going that way? 
Why do people lose hope when something bad happens in their life and blame their destiny for that misery? 

Well, the answer is simple. We are afraid. We are afraid of everything. We are afraid of new adventures. We are afraid of changes. We are afraid of taking new steps. We are afraid of losing what we have. We are afraid of losing people. And in order to overcome that fear, we believe in anything that gives us hope that nothing will go wrong and even if something bad happens it will not be your fault, it will be destiny. And that's when we lose control of our own lives and start depending on unseen things to lead us. 

Why can't we try to think of taking our own path and follow what we think is right? Why aren't we sure about our own thought and actions? People need to know that whatever happens in life is a result of your own actions or someone else's. It is not because there is a force that is bringing all the changes in your life. If you lose something, then you didn't work towards keeping it. If you are not able to achieve something, then you didn't work hard enough or someone else was better than you. So you just need to see that there is a reason behind everything and its not the destiny that plays its role. 

You make your own destiny.........

New Year Resolutions --- 2016

A Happy New Year to everyone.....Have amazing year ahead :)

And now that we are talking about new year, how can we miss talking about the new year resolutions. I'm sure everyone has a list of the resolutions for the new year and will work towards them. I have a few too. So what happened to the ones that you took last year. Did you make it through? Or did you complete a few and forgot the rest?

There are a few things to keep in mind when you take a resolution. It shouldn't be just a quick decision but it has to be a well thought list. A resolution can not only boost your confidence but also make you work towards becoming a better person and a strong competitor. So with that in mind, just make sure you go through the points below before you hit that list on the new year's eve:

1. You need to make sure you write down what you really want to do or achieve.
2. You need to make sure there is a passion behind each one of the list items.
3. You need to make sure you have thought about each and have a plan ready to achieve the targets.
4. You need to make sure you only choose enough to not over stress you or that you don't have sufficient time for.
5. And the last is that you need to make sure you are ready to get your ass off that couch and finish what you plan to start.

Well, that/s about it. You go through these pointers and create that list and you are good to go. Make this New Year worth it......

There is always a way out :)

Sometimes in life, you get stuck in situations where there is no way out however it has been said by a lot of successful people that there is always a way out no matter how stuck you are or how bad the circumstances. And that is true. The only thing that keeps us from finding that one way out is the fact that we panic and lose our mind when we are facing a tough situation or when we get stuck. Human mind is a fragile yet extremely active thing. It works the way you want it to work, it does what you make it do and it thinks what you believe to be true. And the way to get out of any such harmful or bad situation is to tame your mind. You should know that it is you who makes the mind work and not the other way around. I'm sure this is a pretty controversial topic to discuss however this is how I live my life and how I feel is the best way to do it. The most important things that I believe one should do or plan to do when in a miserable situation are:

1) MOST IMPORTANT - Stay Calm - This is one thing that we usually miss out and this is the most important factor in any scenario. Stay calm and everything should feel easy.

2) Be aware of what is happening around you - You should always be aware of what all is happening around you and not just worry about what's happening to you.

3) Be aware of who is controlling the situation and how it is being controlled - Always try and figure out who or what is controlling the outcome in the situation as that can be a key to getting out.

4) Be aware of how you ended up in this situation - Try and remember what you did or what incident brought you in this situation in the first place.

5) Figure out the various options that you have - While staying calm, just try and look around for options that you have to get out of the mess. There is always one that is pretty easy and you might ignore it unless you focus.

6) Always stay motivated - One of the things that leads to misery is the fact that people lose hope or get demotivated and just give up. They accept their misery. You should never do that and you will find it easy to get out.

7) Think of a reason to make things better - There is always something or someone in life that you want and in order to do that you do certain things. Just try and remember one of those and that should get you off your ass and do something about it.

8) Stop cribbing and do something - Well pretty self-explanatory :)

Well in all, things aren't going to get better by themselves, you have to figure out a way yourself. So let's get up and fix things. Cheers.

New Year Resolutions for 2015

With the new year come a lot of new things, responsibilities, opportunities and challenges. And in order to manage all these we need to improvise and set some resolutions so that we can make it easier for us and ofcourse make the new year better than the one before. So I have selected the best new year resolutions that you can set for yourself and work towards meeting all these goals. Here's the list:

1) Reach a fitness level that makes you satisfied - Keep in mind your ideal weight and work towards it no matter how much time it takes.

2) Be shameless - Once you reach a level of shamelessness you realize you can do anything in the world. Try reaching that level and be carefree.

3) Learn something new - It can be an instrument, language or anything that you feel like or wanted to learn but never got the chance. Try putting some time into it and master it.

4) Go for an unplanned trip - There is nothing more exciting that a trip that you never plan. Just decide to go somwhere and take a couple of friends along. It is worth it.

5) Be adventurous - Adventures teach you to that risking life for something is an extraordinary feeling. Find an adventurous sport and go for it.

6) Save money and buy something pricey - There is always that one thing that always wanted to buy but never bought it because it was too costly. Well it's time to save some bucks and buy it...finally. That would feel amazing.

7) Do something stupid - Do something that would really look stupid. Enjoy being stupid and laugh along.

8) Take an off - Take a month off from work and just rest or take up a hobby.

9) Just leave - In the middle of an arguement just turn around and leave without saying anything. This is going to have awesome after effects.

10) Laugh - Last but not he least, laugh on others, yourself and things that you see around. Just laugh.

I'm sure these are some things that everyone has on their lists but never got the chance to do. Well this is your lucky year. Go wild.

Time to get up...

When the world is bringing you down it your knees,
that's when you should rise even if you bleed.
No matter how hard the path may be,
you have to walk it for the world to see.
You are stronger than you think you are,
No one can make you quit, you are a star.
Things can get messy, they can make you cry,
But time heals everything, let it fly.
When you feel you are running out of breath,
And you know there's nothing left but death.
And when that happens and your time is near,
that's when you realize you have no fear.
So why wait for that time and live in misery,
get up and create some history.
Coz there is nothing that can bring you down and make you quit.
No matter how hard the life, or how badly you're hit.
Grab your nuts and show the world,
what you have instore and fly like a bird.
Don't think about anything and don't you worry,
You don't live forever, It's time to hurry.

Live you life the way you want to.........let no one beat you to the ground....:)

You can't control time but you can control life...

Time flies by like a thunderstorm,
passes by you and takes things with it.
You can't stop it no matter what,
But all you can do is make time a good memory.
Always do what you want to do,
Always take risks and not just think about it.
You know what's right for you,
never take someone else's advice and follow it.
Always stay calm and look for a solution,
don't panic and make the situation more miserable.
You have the remote control in your hands,
never let anyone else take it from you.
There is always time to make changes,
you are never to busy to stay stuck.
Whenever you are in a situation you can't get out from,
just remember "There is always a way".
Time flies by like a rainy season,
washes all your dreams if you don't take an action.
Go out there are live your life,
And believe me when i say......You make your own destiny

Self-Motivation is The First Requisite To Great Undertakings!

“Failure is the first step to success”- almost every one of us must have read this line in the primary classes. But why have I written this line here? – Just as a reminder that, reading and learning such basics are of no use if we don’t imply them in our lives. Each one of us has to go through hard times some day or the other. Either missing a good job opportunity or a low score in an important test, failures always stroll around us, no matter where you hide. So, what is the significance of “Success” in our lives? It is always next to you but only if you accept and learn from your failures!

Self motivation is the thing, which drives you straight to the achievement of your goal, to do something better in life. At some point in our lives, we have to do things that we really don’t want to, but we know we have to; we need to self motivate ourselves greatly. The reasons for doing the ostracized work may differ due to various circumstances. But, what matters is that only self motivation turns out to be a successful tool in every state.

Even the most motivated of us, at times feel unmotivated. The conditions seem to be worse when sometimes we get into such a slump that even making positive changes look as if it is too difficult. But, even this is not the end. This ‘slump’ may turn into a stepping stone of your success. The movement you start motivating yourself and begin your way, even the small steps get you started on the road to a positive change.

From my personal experience, the unfavorable condition rises from the activities of past. But that for sure doesn’t mean that you should have any kind of regret for those activities. Many of us share one thing in common; we try to take on too much and try to achieve too many goals at once. The resultant we are already aware of; we often end up feeling overwhelmed. All you have to do is to learn from your mistakes and make your weakness your strength. And this is possible only with self motivation.

Inspiration also plays a significant role and it is an essential part of self motivation. You can get inspired from those who have achieved their goals and also by yourself, with your achievements in past. Self motivation is dependent on your own determination and lasts much longer than being motivated by any other person.   

So, trust your potential and the inspiration inside you, that's all you need to achieve what you want to!

The most important three rules for life.............:P

The important Life lessons......

There are a lot of things that one needs to remember if he wants to live a life without any misery and get out of each and every situation with a smiling face. Ofcourse there is no way to list all those lessons in one page, it would take years to write down all known till now and even that would not complete the list because we learn new things every now and then. So I'm listing down a few that seems important to me and have learnt in the short life I've lived so far........

1) No one stays with you for a lifetime: It is easier said than done because there is no way to judge what's coming towards you in future and there is a negligible chance of a person to stay with you for a lifetime so don't get your expectations too high. Rather just enjoy what you have and live it at its best as long as you have it.

2) Money does matter: I know this is a highly controversial debate of whether money or morals are more important and trust me in the world that we live in today, money matter the most. Morals only give you peanuts.

3) Wait for the right opportunity: Well these days opportunities don't really come knocking at your door instead you have to drag your own ass to and burn yourself to get what you want. That's just how it is.

4) Stop praying: Prayers are for when you were kids, grow up and take charge of your life. Otherwise, you would end up as that beggar on the street who waits for some miracle to happen. It's not a fairy tale, it's life.

Well there are a lot more that I would like to put down here but I'll wait for another time to do that. For now, just go out there and be practical about life. Start living.....cheers

Three things to know in life.....

In life, there are a lot of things to learn and work on but there are 3 things that you need to know in order to create your life the way you want it. And those are:

1) You need to know that you call the shots: Every decision is yours to make. No matter what the circumstances are, its you who decides what to do in them. Ofcourse there are things that change the course of your actions but the end decision is still in your hands so mane it worth it.

2) Its ok to be selfish: I know this is wrong to say but there are times when it is good to be selfish because it is your life and you need to make it worth living. And sometimes it harms to be not-selfish, thus think about yourselves sometimes and live the way you want to.

3) Change is good for you: I know a its hard to adjust to changes in life but most of the changes are good for you. and you don't need to back out of something that changes things in your life because that is going to happen anyways now or later. So just go do whatever needs to be done and don't worry about the changes it would bring to your life.

Control your dreams..:)

What if guys and girls swapped roles at gym.....lol

The world......:)

Why people hate Atheists......

hahaha....God vs Satan....lol

Power of Concentration......

Hope...An important part of life.....

HOPE - a small word with a great meaning,
It can mean the world to someone who lost everything.
It can be be a string that life hangs on to.
It can be a part of a person, that makes him happy.
It can be something that makes someone stay alive.
It can be a thing that can change the whole world.
It can be a live changing thing for someone who has none left.
It can be as important as love for someone who is about to lose a lover.
It can be a cure for a patient in a hospital.
It can be the energy for someone who is too tired.
It can be a form of light for someone falling into darkness.
It can be the sunlight for someone who just woke up from deep sleep.
It can be happiness, life, miracle and a lot more.
HOPE can mean a lot to someone who wants happiness and a better life........

Motivation for life..........

5 Awesome Atheism quotes............

Religion has actually convinced people that there's an invisible man -- living in the sky -- who watches everything you do, every minute of every day. And the invisible man has a special list of ten things he does not want you to do.. And if you do any of these ten things, he has a special place, full of fire and smoke and burning and torture and anguish, where he will send you to live and suffer and burn and choke and scream and cry forever and ever 'til the end of time! ..But He loves you..........


I contend that we are both atheists. I just believe in one fewer god than you do. When you understand why you dismiss all the other possible gods, you will understand why I dismiss yours.............


Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent. Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent. Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil? Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God?


George Bush says he speaks to god every day, and christians love him for it. If George Bush said he spoke to god through his hair dryer, they would think he was mad. I fail to see how the addition of a hair dryer makes it any more absurd...........


A man's ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties; no religious basis is necessary. Man would indeed be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death..........

10 things to remember in life.......

Life is sometimes a mess but sometimes it's awesome. To make it worth living, these are the few things that you should remember.....

1) If we wait to make a move till we are ready, then we might be waiting for the rest of our lives.

2) Never regret what you have done, instead regret what you have not done.

3) A year from now you would wish you had started now. So don't wait, just do it.

4) What you think of yourself is much more important than what people thing about you.

5) The difference between try and triumph is just a little umph.

6) If you want something that you have never had, then you would have to do something that you've never done.

7) Intelligence without ambition is like a bird without wings.

8) If you focus on results you would never change but if you focus on change then you would get results.

9) When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, that is when you will be successful.

10) The worst mistake in you life is to not make any. Make mistakes and learn and improvise.

If you can follow these, then life would be just a pleasant walk in the park. Well, sometimes even that is hard but you still end up feeling great in the end....Keep trying....:)