Wow, weather's awesome tonight.........

Well it had been a while since we've seen good weather here. Now that the winters are gone and the summers are just around the corner, the climate is just awesome. The not-so-cool winds and the clear sky makes everyone wanna step out in the evening and night and have fun. Well atleast I feel that way. And I am sure a lot of other young hearts feel the same as well.

But with these things comes the hot and dry sunny days as well. The ones that squeese all the water out of the body and dehydreate the souls to the very core. They say with all the good comes something bad as well. Right?

Well we don't care about that right? We would rather enjoy the ice creams a nd the cold drinks than think about the heat of the sun. We would rather enjoy the cold showers than the sweaty outdoors. So don't worry about the sun...just go out and have some fun ofcourse when the sun sets...:)

Don't mind its "HOLI".....:)

It was the festival of colors today "Holi" and like always everyone had an awesome time. On this day people splash colors on each other and dance on the beats of a "Dhol". This is the best time for teenagers to have fun with water and colors and ride bikes breaking all traffic rules. Boys and girls in groups have fun throwing water balloons at each other, roaming around coloring random people. The best part is that even if you wet someon who you dont know he/she won't mind because everyone knows it's "Holi". So if there's a special someone that you wanna have fun with or someone that you wanna take revenge with......this is the oppurtunity of a lifetime. :)

Well apart from that this is a great time for brothers and sisters and other family members to strenthen the bond of love between them as it is not just a festival for teens but also for people of all age groups.

And another thing that adds to all the fun is lot of drinking. Boys have some hard drinks and roam around hooting and throwing colors on bikes, cars, jeeps etc. And wherever they find some music or dholi, they stop and start dancing whether it's the street or a park. Ofcourse they don't mean any harm so the residents don't really mind. So basically guys and gals have fun in the best way they can.

Well that's all about the festival we call "Holi". And I don't know about you but I had fun. Enjoy.

Who says Life is hard????

People often say Life is hard, but what I've never understood is "Why is it hard?". Is it because we have a lot of things to accomplish or is it because we desire more than what we have? Have you ever given a thought to this???????

Well I'm sure you Have not. But that's not your fault, there are billion other people in the world who are in the same boat.

I've experienced a lot in the last 23 years and since I've started understanding things and how everything works, I've realized life is just the way we want it to be. If you have desires beyond what you already have then you can make your life a lot stressful and unhappy. But on the other hand if you are content with everything that you own, you would be as happy as an infant. I know everyone wants to own a big house, a super bike, a shiny car and a lot of other things but what if you don't get those things. Would you try to work for those or would you cry and curse your life because you don't have all of that. And maybe you would feel angry when you see someone who has all of that and start envying him. But this is really the opposite of what you should do. You should relax and think about the best thing that you can do at that moment to get a bit closer to the goal.

In the army when the novices are trained, they are told to take time to aim and then shoot. It should be done the same way in life as well. You should plan, take you time and then shoot for the target and slowly you would reach the goal and have everything that you urge for.

So people stop cursing your life and start working towards your ULTIMATE GOAL. And remember keep having fun along the way because it sucks when it gets boring.....:)

Why do people care about what others say................

We live in a world where people live a very busy life and hardly get time for themselves. They work to earn a living to take care of themselves and their families. And its great that we have eveloved to such an extent but there is one mindset that annoys me the most. In such a busy schedule, when they somehow get time for themselves and feel like doing something a question pops up in their mind "What would other people think if i do this???".

And that when a question pops up in mind "Why do people care about what others say??". Think about it.

If you feel like doing something, that means that doing that task would make you happy. Now lets suppose there is some person e.g. your neighbour or someone living in your street opposes your action, would you drop the idea and sacrifice your happiness for some person who doesnt even know a single thing about you. I would say thats the stupidest thing that anyone can do. Life is not that long that you sacrifice your own happiness for some people who dnt give a damn.

The sad part is there are a lot of people that do this all the time. They sacrifice themselves for others even though those people don't appreciate it. And when it comes to them they dnt give a s**t. And some people refuse to change even after knowing and understanding this. We are independent beings and have the right to live our own life the way we want to and i really do not think anyone else has anything to do with it. Do what makes you happy even when there are a lot of people that dont like it. If they can't see you happy then they dnt deserve your sacrifices or you. Those who really care about you would love to accompany you in the task. Those times are far gone when a society had that kinda bond that made them do things collectively, now like my girlfriend says "Everyone is fighting their own war".

So again.......Live life the way you want to and do whatever makes you happy coz thats what life is about........

All we need is brain.......................

Well i've met so many people who are superstitious in each and eveything, They still belive things that people used to believe thousands of years ago. I just dont understand, even after making so much progress in sceince and technology howcome the mind is still the same. In the ancient times when we didnt even know what earth was and how we moved around in the universe, these beliefs were justified as there was no other explaination. But wt about now?

We know so much about the existence of mankind and other species but people still belive in the "Man in the sky". They still belive there is a supernatural force that controls each and every thing in this whole universe. Ive had so many discussions ont eh existence of "God" with so many people and the end result is that they would rather believe in some s**t then face the reality.

C'mon people when would we realize that we are wasting so much time depending on something that's not even there. Be practical. I am sure, no one has ever given a deep thought about it coz they have been taught not to. But tell me something, can you accomplish something without taking an action for it. For eg. Can you reach a place you need to go to if you do not get out of the house and drive there or hire a cab or whatever. No you can not. Because things do not and can not happen by themselves. Newton was right to say "Every action has an equal and opposite reaction" and i would like to add to it that "For doing each and every thing an action has to be taken". Think about it.

If each and every person starts living in reality, the world would be a lot better place.

Remember "All you need is brain".

F**k it........you dnt get to live twice........:)

You know wt, i always was the kind of guy who worried about each and everything. I used to think a lot before doing anything coz i was always worried about the consequences of my actions. But in the past couple of months this all changed. I just do what i feel like doing, say what i feel like saying without thinking about the consequences. And believe me guys this feels awesome. Try it.

Ive done things that i never dared to do, never even in my wildest dreams. And i loved it. I am sure everyone knows the value of freedom. I mean, cmon we dont get to live our life twice. Live it like its going to end tomorrow. Dont waste time. You like someone, tell him/her. You want to try a new dish, do it. You want to get a new car, buy it. You want to go on a holiday, just go. Have fun, enjoy each moment of your life.

Think about it, how many times an idea comes into our mind and we ignore it just because it sounds stupid even though if its a lot of fun. This action turns into a regret somewhere down the line. You start feeling low, bad about not doing what you could do that that time. That's the worst feeling, seriously. So i say "F**k it.....you dnt get to live twice.......:)".

World's turning upside down.....

We all know what's been in the news recently about the lack of security in the city beautiful and they say every possible step is taken to create a more safe environment specially for girls........But recently a friend/colleague witnessed smthin that wud blow all the fake promises and useless comments.........Read the following in his own words.........

"I left the office at 2:15 AM and went to Sector 17 Bus Stand for a cup of Tea. Thats where you can get it at wee hours. I was returning back to Mohali. After I crossed the Aroma Light Point and about to reach the 34-35 round about, I saw 2 cars parked in the middle of the road, I slowed down. I then found that a few drunk youth are harassing 3 people in the other car. As there was no way to go across them, I reversed my car back to the Aroma Light Point.

Living in Chandigarh from last 3 years, I know that there is a Police Naka near Aroma everynight. I approached the cops and narrated the whole thing. They did not have there Zipsy so asked me if I can take them to the spot in my car. I agreed to the same. Before we could move the Sonata car which carried those nuisance creating youth moved through the naka. The policemen informed their fellows on the other end of Sector 22 Naka to stop the car.

In a minute or 2, they got a message on the wireless that the car has turned back to the end I was standing. The cops looking alert got ready to stop the car.

To my surprise, the car slowed down upon the cops signal, and then just went through. The police looked helpless and could not act.

The other car which was stopped by the Sonata Car youth earlier also reached the spot. One girl came out, sobbing and told the cops that the youth harassed her.

The cops could not do anything. I sat in my car and headed for Mohali. All the way I was thinking, what is happening to the city. Young guys get drunk and become the owner of the whole city, do whatever they want and care for nothing. No sense of responsibility and no humanity."

So wt do we call the city nw??????