Monday, May 23, 2011

Why do people care about what others say................


We live in a world where people live a very busy life and hardly get time for themselves. They work to earn a living to take care of themselves and their families. And its great that we have eveloved to such an extent but there is one mindset that annoys me the most. In such a busy schedule, when they somehow get time for themselves and feel like doing something a question pops up in their mind "What would other people think if i do this???".

And that when a question pops up in mind "Why do people care about what others say??". Think about it.

If you feel like doing something, that means that doing that task would make you happy. Now lets suppose there is some person e.g. your neighbour or someone living in your street opposes your action, would you drop the idea and sacrifice your happiness for some person who doesnt even know a single thing about you. I would say thats the stupidest thing that anyone can do. Life is not that long that you sacrifice your own happiness for some people who dnt give a damn.

The sad part is there are a lot of people that do this all the time. They sacrifice themselves for others even though those people don't appreciate it. And when it comes to them they dnt give a s**t. And some people refuse to change even after knowing and understanding this. We are independent beings and have the right to live our own life the way we want to and i really do not think anyone else has anything to do with it. Do what makes you happy even when there are a lot of people that dont like it. If they can't see you happy then they dnt deserve your sacrifices or you. Those who really care about you would love to accompany you in the task. Those times are far gone when a society had that kinda bond that made them do things collectively, now like my girlfriend says "Everyone is fighting their own war".

So again.......Live life the way you want to and do whatever makes you happy coz thats what life is about........