Believer vs Idiots vs Atheist......:)

I enjoy life.......

It's been a while since I had the chance to write about life, I guess I was trying to make mine better. Well, actually I was trying to survive. When you are a kid, all you want to do is grow up and enjoy life but we don't think about what life is actually all about as an adult. When responsibilities hop in, it shakes the very core of our plans, our structures and our future.The fun and the enjoyment stops and you get busy thinking ti all through and making new plans for a better life. But its really hard when you have to kick yourself up everyday to get out of bed and get ready to face a hard day full of challenges, pressure and loads and loads of work. Yes, that's what life is all about. One day it is like a beautiful sunny day and the very next it turns out to be hell. And when that happens, you start to believe that there is nothing you can do about it, it will turn out to be as destiny has it. And that's where the life ends. 

If you want it to be as you always thought of when you were a kid, then you need to get a hold of it, pull it with the string and take control. You need to start making your own decisions and work on them. Instead to forcible getting up everyday, try forcing the day to work with you. This can change everything in your life and then it will all be as the life you dreamt of. And then you can say I enjoy life. :)

Fun all the way...........

Inspiring indeed...........

A quick Management Course.......

Ok, I found this amazing management course on the internet and i am glad to share it with you guys and girls......It''s really awesome and will teach you a lot, check it out :


Lesson 1:

A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower, when the doorbell rings. The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next-door neighbor.

Before she says a word, Bob says, "I'll give you $800 to drop that towel."

After thinking for a moment, the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob.

After a few seconds, Bob hands her $800 and leaves.

The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs. When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks, "Who was that?" "It was Bob the next door neighbor," she replies.

"Great!" the husband says, "did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?"

Moral of the story:
If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time, you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.


Lesson 2:

A priest offered a Nun a lift. She got in and crossed her legs, forcing her gown to reveal a leg. The priest nearly had an accident. After controlling the car, he stealthily slid his hand up her leg.
The nun said, "Father, remember Psalm 129?"

The priest removed his hand. But, changing gears, he let his hand slide up her leg again. The nun once again said, "Father, remember Psalm 129?" The priest apologized "Sorry sister but the flesh is weak."

Arriving at the convent, the nun sighed heavily and went on her way.

On his arrival at the church, the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129. It said, "Go forth and seek, further up, you will find glory."

Moral of the story:
If you are not well informed in your job, opportunities for advancement will pass right by you.


Lesson 3:

A sales rep, an administration clerk, and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp. They rub it and a Genie comes out. The Genie says, "I'll give each of you just one wish."

"Me first! Me first!" says the admin clerk. "I want to be in the Bahamas, driving a speedboat, without a care in the world." Puff! She's gone.

"Me next! Me next!" says the sales rep. "I want to be in Hawaii , relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse, an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life." Puff! He's gone.

"OK, you're up," the Genie says to the manager. The manager says, "I want those two back in the office after lunch."

Moral of the story:
Always let your boss have the first say.


Lesson 4:

An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing. A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing?"

The eagle answered: "Sure , why not."

So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.

Moral of the story:
To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.


Lesson 5:

A turkey was chatting with a bull. "I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree," sighed the turkey, "but I haven't got the energy."

"Well, why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?" replied the bull. They're packed with nutrients."

The turkey pecked at a lump of dung, and found it actually gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree. The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch.

Finally after a fourth night, the turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree. He was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot him out of the tree.

Moral of the story:
Bull shit might get you to the top, but it won't keep you there.


Lesson 6:

A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field. While he was lying there, a cow came by and shit on him.

As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was. The dung was actually thawing him out! He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.

A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.

Morals of the story:
(1) Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.
(3) And when you're in deep shit, it's best to keep your mouth shut!

I hope this helped.....:))

Invention of GOD......

So, we human beings have a tendency to reason for each and everything that happens around us. Though this is not a bad thing but inventing new things just because we haven't been able to find the exact actual reason for something takes it to a new insanity level. 

Not sure where I am going with this?? Alright let me tell you.

We have not been able to figure out what the role of a human being is on Earth. Well due to curiosity, we have created GODs so that we could give a reason that we are here to serve them. And who doesn't serve them is punished by the GODs, though the punishment is given by human beings. Yes, that's insane alright. Well, that's not it. We have created so many GODs, too many of them that people fight over who is real and who's not and who is more powerful and crap and crap. I'm sure you are getting the point by now. 

So, people kill each other just because their GOD wants them to kill who don't believe in him or who goes again their GOD. Well that's one hell of a GOD right there, sounds more like a Devil though. Anyways, people are so blinded that they use religion to support their lunatic anti-social behavior and that's what gets on my nerves. I hope to see people using their minds more often in future and are free from the constraints of religions and follow a much better road to life.

Turn your child into a human being....

I was reading one article the other day about some research the scientists conducted on Children's brains. And It was a good one, I must say. Well it made scientists realize that children have a natural, an intuitive way or reasoning with what happens around them that makes them believe in all kinds of supernatural crap and beliefs and so they have their own beliefs for how the world works. And Yes, I agree. 

Because a child doesn't know anything, he/she learns from other people and grabs anything and everything that he/she sees and hears. And as we know a majority of population believes in all kinds of supernatural things and that's what they teach the kids. And the kids also start to believe in those things and even create their own reasons from those beliefs for other similar things that happen around them. 

But when they grow up they learn about the history, science and other things in the world and those superstitions beliefs are replaced by the new things that they learn. And the rest of the things that are not explained to them by books, those illogical superstitions remain as religion and its really hard to replace them and time passes by. 

And these illogical beliefs can be really weird. Let me give you an example. I read a news about one guy who refused an organ transplant from a murdered because he had a belief that a person's personality can be stored in his organs. And that's not the weirdest of them all, believe me. [laugh].

Well anyways, what I'm trying to point out is the fact that children should be given valid reasons for things that happen around them and they should be taught what really is and not something that's invisible and is living in the sky and controls people. [laugh]. Turn your children into human beings and not some stupid losers who think they can't make their own destiny and create a life that they desire for.

Definitely way better things to do.............:)

I grew up....:)

I was once a believer, well back then I didn't really use my own mind because I was a 4 year old kid. :) Those were crazy days, I sucked at everything but then I grew up. My brain started to tell me what's right and what's wrong and that's when I came to know what Atheism meant. I knew there were many people against it and there were a few that called themselves Proud Atheists. I didn't know what to do, I followed what my parents taught me. Then I started studying science and I realized what all I had heard from my parents and grand parents was all crap, some made-up shit. I realized that it was all science, and there is no god, no omnipotent power that controls everything on Earth and that we have a brain that we are supposed to use. Well that was the day I became an Atheist and I've been happy and life has been so much fun since then.

Being an Atheist teaches you a lot. It teaches you how you can control your actions and the supposed outcomes and how everything that you do can be done by you and nobody else. It's so much fun when you don't have fear anyone and you can follow your own paths/roads to travel to your own goals. Wow, sounds fun isn't it??

As long as you don't become one of those atheists........:)

Stupid people.........

I always wonder why people don't realize their own potential and instead trust others and superstitious powers. Human beings are advanced species with skills that only they possess but still they keep themselves in a box and rely on prayers and sacrifices to succeed or to win battles. I don't understand how one can follow others blindly and believe in something that was written on pages thousands of years ago even though we have advanced so much scientifically to prove that those are just myths and false beliefs. It has been proved that the words were written in books so as to create fear and feeling of powerlessness in people so that a few could rule and control the majority. Sometimes these thoughts make me laugh because there are millions of people who waste their entire lives waiting for a miracle or their so called "God" to appear and grant them wishes. 

How can someone be that stupid? 

Well, someone told me that people believe what makes them happy. So if they find happiness or maybe peace in believing in things like these then they would do that blindly even though there is no proof of these things being true. I said "Ok, that makes sense". So I realized that people find ways to blame other for their mistakes or for their successes. They don't wanna take credit for something that happens in their lives. And doing that makes them happy and brings peace because they think that they don't have any control on the happenings and thus they do not need to worry or feel the pressure of handling their life and the events that take place. This really sounds pathetic and makes me laugh because I feel these people have the mind of a 5 year old and not a grown up. Or maybe they are still living in stone age and not in the modern world. 

Well anyways, I think people should learn how powerful their mind is and start to use it instead of depending on stupid superstitions and miracles.

I am an Atheist............

It didn't rain yesterday..........

One day it rained like it had never rained before,
It was like the sky was pouring buckets full of water on us,
It was amazing, our bodies drenched in cold water,
We all forgot the extremely hot and dusty weather.
Everyone enjoyed getting wet in the rain that could freeze,
And those at home had fun in the awesome cool breeze.
All thought it was just awesome to have so much rain,
And it continued this the evening and took away all the pain.
But he next day, the sun came up and was so bright,
And on the news it was a devastating sight.
It was crazy how so many places got flooded,
It was like some towns even got vanished.
Everyone was dumbstruck how this amazing rain,
Could destroy so much and bring this much pain.
How good it felt to get drenched and have fun,
And now all that's left is a hell lot of destruction.
Even though i was just amazing what we experienced,
We all still wish it didn't rain yesterday...................

Math atheist..............

Find someone............

So sometimes when people think they are alone,
they want someone they can trust, share thoughts with,
they need someone to assure them it'll all be fine,
someone who can hold their hand and tell them he is here,
someone who can wipe off the tears and make them happy,
they want that person to show them them the right path,
they need that person to take them to safety,
someone who can share their happy moments, 
someone who can reduce the pain in their bad times,
one who can help them understand it goes wrong sometimes,
one who can assure them it's not your fault, it happens,
and someone who can tell them its life, it goes on...........

But what I don't understand is how people can find that person in an invisible non-existing power called GOD....................

Ta dah................:))

The Atheist's prayer..................

Our brain, which art in our heads
treasured by thy name, thy reasoning come.
Thy best you can do be done on earth as it is.
Give us this day new insight,
to help us resolve conflicts and ease pain.
And lead us not into supernatural explanations; 
deliver us from denial of logic
For thine is the kingdom of reason, 
and even though thy powers are limited,
and you 're not always glorious,
you are the best evolutionary adaptation we have,
for helping this earth now and forever and ever,
So be it....................................

Ohh so this is what happened.............:P

When would we learn???

I see people walking around, on their way,
doing hard work and sweating all day.
Getting up early and getting back late,
and after all this, they still believe in fate.
students bury their noses in the books day and night,
and still during exams they rely on God's might.
People get into problems coz of their stupidity,
and blame an invisible supreme power for all their misery.
For all the good that they get from their action,
they credit their so called God's affection.
What world are we living in, buried in lies?
when would people learn to control their own lives............

So true.....:)

Atheism explained............

The Inventor of Religion..........

He thought:
There should be a barrier
To divide Different people
The ones who stood side by side.

There should be hypocrisy
And an ongoing war.
Common sense and intelligence
that I would ignore.

There should be exploitation,
People should hear my voice
And a disease should be spread
Throughout the whole World.   I should be rich

"It's god's word, you should listen." I'll cry
While millions of people would Fall down. And die........

Get up and take control..............

Sometimes you feel like you're being dragged down,
everything seems to go wrong, against you,
All you can do is get angry and frown,
but nothing that you do makes things better or helps you.
At that time you feel like this is the end, its over,
there is no way to set things right and get out of the mess.
Time starts to slow down and keeps getting slower,
thats when your soul fills with sorrow and distress.
People start to tell you its your destiny, fate,
and a part of you thinks that same, believes the shit.
But thats when you decide, its enough, not too late,
and you start to wonder how you ended up in this pit.
Your stress turns into enthusiasm and your mind gives you ideas,
you realize what went wrong and that your mistakes were too many.
you rise up from the dark and make a life out of those ideas,
and thats when you realize "You make your own destiny"...................

Best Quotes by Steve Jobs..............

Almost everything--all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure--these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart...................................


Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do............................


Sometimes when you innovate, you make mistakes. It is best to admit them quickly, and get on with improving your other innovations.................................


Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary................................


I don't think it's good that we're perceived as different I think it's important we're perceived as MUCH BETTER. If being different is essential to doing that, then we have to do that, but if we could be much better without being different, that'd be fine with me. I want to be much better! I don't care about being different, but we'll have to be different in some ways to be much better...................................


Almost everything: all external expectations, all pride all fear of embarrassment or failure. These tings just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose...................................


It comes from saying no to 1,000 things to make sure we don't get on the wrong track or try to do too much.....................................

The truth of life..................:)

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice, heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary................

Nice............:)

Own your LIFE...........

A good life......:)

A good life is when you assume nothing, do more, need less, smile often and realize how fortunate you are right now.  It’s about the simple pleasures that make you happy, the compassionate deeds you perform, the personal goals you strive to achieve, the relationships you nurture and the legacy you leave behind.

So starting today, choose to take control.  Here are ten commandments to help you live a good life.

I.  I am not perfect and I will not try to be.

Think of how many things don’t get done in this world simply because people are waiting for the perfect time, place and circumstance.

The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists.  It rewards people who get things done.  And the only way to get things done is to be imperfect 99% of the time.
 
ll.  I cannot, and will not try, to please everyone.

No matter what you do or how you do it, there will always be people that disagree with what you’re doing.  That’s life.  So don’t try please everyone.  Simply do what I know is right.

And remember, it doesn’t matter how many people don’t get it, it matters how many people do.
 
III.  I will take part in something I believe in.

This could be anything.  Some people take an active role in their city council, some find refuge in religious faith, some join social clubs supporting causes they believe in and others find passion in their careers.  In each case the psychological outcome is the same.  They engage themselves in something they strongly believe in.  This engagement brings happiness and meaning into their lives.
 
IV.  I will prioritize my obligations and do important things first.

Set priorities for yourself and act accordingly.  It’s the only way to get things done.

It’s the only way to turn a dream into a reality. 
 
V.  I will choose my friends wisely.

Your friends are family you choose.  So make sure you choose friends who are worthy of your time and attention.

Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be.  Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it.
 
VI.  I will help others when I am able.

In life, you get what you put in.

When you make a positive impact in someone else’s life, you also make a positive impact in your own life.  The more you help others, the more they will want to help you.
 
VII.  I will focus on the positive.

Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.  The mind must believe it can do something before it is capable of actually doing it.

The way to overcome negative thoughts and destructive emotions is to develop opposing, positive emotions that are stronger and more powerful.  Listen to your self-talk and replace negative thoughts with positive ones.  Regardless of how a situation seems, focus on the next positive step forward.
 
VIII.  I can only be me.

Judy Garland once said, “Always be a first rate version of yourself instead of a second rate version of somebody else.”  Live by this statement.

There is no such thing as living in someone else’s shoes.  The only shoes you can occupy are your own.  If you aren’t being yourself, you aren’t truly living – you’re merely existing.  And ask yourself this:  If you don’t like who you really are, why should I like you?

Trying to be somebody you’re not is not sexy.  Be you.  That’s when you’re beautiful.
 
IX.  I will be here now.

Life is happening right now.  Instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, practice being and living in the present moment.

Remember, right now is the only moment guaranteed to you.  Right now is life.  Don’t miss it.  

X.  Life never gets any better, only my perception of it does.

The world around you changes when you change.

If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.  The opposite is also true.  The choice is yours to make.

Motivation to push the limits.............:)

Keep getting stronger..........

Life is too unexpected to be taken seriously. As you move on in life, friends come and go, clothing is packed and unpacked, households are continually purged of unnecessary items, and as a result, not much sticks. It can be really hard at times but it makes us strong in ways that most people can never understand. Teaches us that even though people are left behind, new ones will inevitably take their place; that every place has something good and bad to offer. It makes us grow up fast and thus helps us survive anything and everything....................That's how it's supposed to be, there's nothing that can change that. so just keep fighting and keep getting strong with every hurdle that comes you way. And don't forget to have fun because without it, life would be too boring to be worth fighting for......................:)

Hahahahaha...........:)

Religion-the best bullshit story of all time........

Amazingly Religion easily has the best bullshit story of all time. 

Think about it. 

Religion has convinced billions of people that there’s an invisible man living in the sky. He is one person who watches everything you do every minute of every day. And that invisible man has a list of a lot of specific things he doesn’t want you to do. And if you do any of these things, he will send you to a special place, of burning and fire and smoke and torture and anguish for you to live forever, and suffer, and burn, and scream, until the end of time. 

But he loves you. He loves you. He loves you and he needs money.....................

And people seriously believe that, soooo damn strange............

Some awesome points to follow in life...............:))

1.     Memorize something everyday. Not only will this leave your brain sharp and your memory functioning, you will also have a huge library of quotes to bust out at any moment. Poetry, sayings and philosophies are your best options.
2.     Constantly try to reduce your attachment to possessions. Those who are heavy-set with material desires will have a lot of trouble when their things are taken away from them or lost. Possessions do end up owning you, not the other way around. Become a person of minimal needs and you will be much more content.
3.     Develop an endless curiosity about this world. Become an explorer and view the world as your jungle. Stop and observe all of the little things as completely unique events. Try new things. Get out of your comfort zone and try to experience as many different environments and sensations as possible. This world has so much to offer, so why not take advantage of it?
4.     Remember people’s names so that they feel appreciated and for your own future benefit when you want something from that person. To do this, say their name back to them when they introduce themselves. Then repeat the name in your head a number of times until you are sure you have it. Continue to use their name in conversation as much as possible to remove any chance of forgetting it. If you’re still having trouble, make up a rhyme about their name: “Dan the Man” or “Natalie flatters me.”
5.     Get fit! It’s ridiculous to think that we have one body, one sole means of functioning, and people are too lazy to take care of themselves. Fit bodies lead to better health, confidence and more success with romantic endeavors. I’d say those are 3 very good reasons to get in shape.
6.     Learn to focus only on the present. The past is unchangeable so it is futile to reflect on it unless you are making sure you do not repeat past mistakes. The future is but a result of your actions today. So learn from the past to do better in the present so that you can succeed in the future.
7.     Even more specifically, live in THIS moment. Even 10 minutes ago is the past. If you live purely in this moment you will always be happy because there is nothing wrong in this split-second.
8.     Smile more often. Whenever you get a grin on your face, your brain is releasing serotonin, the happy hormone. Smiling is the natural way to force yourself to be happy. Many people even smile for five minutes straight in the morning to get themselves in a great mood for the day. It is a very powerful tool that is utilized less and less as we grow older and need happiness more than ever. Just remember that while happiness leads to smiles, smiles also lead to happiness.
9.     Drink water. Hydration is tremendously important for overall health. Soda has absolutely ZERO nutritional content; it’s like pouring a punch of sugar and syrup into your cup. Instead, fill it with life-replenishing water. It may taste plain at first if you’re coming off of a heavy soda-drinking streak, but you’ll soon find yourself addicted to it. 10 glasses per day is optimal, how many have you been getting lately?
10.     Don’t take life so seriously! Learn to laugh at the little things and this whole “existence” thing will be a whole lot easier. Be amused by your mistakes and failures and be thankful that you learned your lesson and won’t mess up like that again. And most importantly do things that you enjoy! Life is not strictly business, it can be mixed with pleasure.
11.     Think positive thoughts. When you find yourself thinking a negative thought, stop it immediately by any means necessary. Slap yourself in the face, yell something positive at the top of your lungs or jump up and down. Do whatever it takes to get back to a positive mindset as such is essential for continual happiness and success.
12.     Read books. No explanation needed.
13.     Get in the sun. Superman was completely re-energized when he flew out to space and soaked in some rays and you can do the same right outside your front door (if you live in a constantly dreary place, my apologies). The sun feels amazing: your entire body will be coursing with warmth and life.
14.     Help others. I’ll just give you a plethora of reasons why this is a MUST
15.         Helping people has a ripple effect. If you help someone they will feel more obliged to help someone else, and so on. Pay it forward
16.         You grow by giving and helping others. It can change you in ways you never expected
17.         Your relationship with that person will become stronger
18.         It’s the most fulfilling thing you can do on this planet. It not only feels amazing physically, you also feel like a good person
19.         You might be able to call in a favor later when you need some help
20.         Karma (if you believe in it)
21.         Because there are more people in this world than just you
22.      Set aside a specific time to worry each day. Ponder all of your problems and anxieties during that time so that they will not distract you during work or moments of pleasure. This way you can be extremely efficient with your time and avoid focusing on negative things as much as possible. If you get all of your worry out of the way and have the mental fortitude to keep from reverting back to them, you will be much happier on the daily.
23.     Be honest at all times. Lies lead to nothing but trouble. Being known as trustworthy is an excellent trait to maintain and essential to having integrity.
24.     Sleep less. Fully adjusting to a new sleep cycle can take up to 21 days so don’t give up if you feel tired after switching to 5-hour nights. The “required” 8 hour/night is for normal people. If you’re reading THIS article on THIS site, you are not normal. So figure out how much sleep YOU really need and adjust accordingly. As enjoyable as sleep is, waking existence is much more fulfilling and efficient. IF this really sparks your interest, check out alternate sleep cycles with which you can be fine off of 2 hours of sleep per day.
25.     Read “Bringers of Light” and “Conversations with God” by Neale Donald Walsch. These books will help you decide what you want to do in this life and how to get to that point. They will also profoundly change the way you look at the purpose of existence. Read them!
26.     Figure out what your goals and dreams are. So many people wander aimlessly through life simply go for whatever small thing they want moment by moment. Instead, decide what your perfect life consists of and begin to put the steps in motion to reach that place. The most satisfying thing in the world (yes, better than sex, much better) is overcoming a challenge and reaching a goal. We are the happiest when we are growing and working towards something better.
27.     Start your day off right. Wake up and set aside an hour for personal development activities (meditation, self-introspection, observing nature, etc.) Do the things that make you feel blissful, optimistic and empowered so that you can set a positive tone for your day. I guarantee that once you start doing this, your days will be more enjoyable and fulfilling. Today is going to be the best day of your life. Duh.
28.     Utilize ‘The Burning Method.’ Whenever a fear or worry or complaint comes to mind, close your eyes and imagine writing down the thought on a piece of paper. Then proceed to light the paper and fire and watch it disintegrate. Even better, actually write it down and burn it. You won’t have any problem ridding your mind of the thought after doing this.
29.     Travel. Frequent Flyer Master Anyone who has ever gone anywhere will tell you that traveling is one of the most exciting and life-changing activities that you can do. Observing a different culture will expand your mind while making you further appreciate the life you already live. This goes back to becoming an explorer: this world is your jungle so go explore! Who knows, maybe you’ll find a place you love so much that you decide to move. Imagine the positive repercussions a new environment could have on your life.
30.     The Rubber Band Method This is the third and final way to rid yourself of negative thoughts (hopefully by now you have figured out that this is very important!). Place a rubber band around your wrist and snap it against your skin anytime a negative thought finds its way into your head. This operant conditioning technique associates a slight pain with negative thoughts like Pavlov associated food/salivation with the sound of a bell. Sounds a bit cruel at first but it only stings for a second, I promise. Plus the outcome, having only positive thoughts, far outweighs a little slap on the wrist here and there.
31.     Learn to be unaffected by the words of others. Most people get very upset when they are called negative names by others, but there is a simple trick to overcoming this. Here it is: If I went up to you and called you a fire hydrant, would you be upset? Of course not. Obviously you are not a fire hydrant, you are a human being. The same concept applies to when someone calls you something that you know you are not. They are foolish for saying such things, so why would you react with such anger? The only exception is when someone calls you something that is true! In this case, you should thank them for alerting you to a weakness, one that you can now work on changing.
32.     Read “Zen and the Art of Happiness” by Chris Prentiss. This book will give you the knowledge and instruction to be happy at all times regardless of the circumstances. Yes, this sounds like an oversimplification of happiness, but I assure you that this book will change you in an amazing way.
33.     Develop the ability to forgive. Forgiveness is something that most people fail miserably at even thought it’s so simple. Grudges only bring more misery to those who hold them and prevent good relations with the target. YOU makes mistakes all of the time so why not have mercy when other do? Remaining angry feels horrible while forgiving someone brings a refreshing sensation to the mind and healing to the relationship.
34.     Be the person that makes others feel special. Be known for your kindness and sympathy.
35.     Learn to lucid dream, or to realize when you are dreaming so that you can control your dreams. Sleep feels good, but it’s rather boring and unproductive. With lucid dreaming under your belt, night-time can be even more exciting than when you are awake. You can do anything: fly, travel to other planets, party with a celebrity, get intimate with your dream boy/girl, etc. Many lucid dreams have also reported being able to speak directly with the subconscious during dreams by demanding to be taken to it after becoming lucid. For those that know a thing or two about your subconscious, that is a BIG deal.
36.     Visualize daily. It has been said and proven time and time again that what you focus on is what you get. If you complain all of the time, you will run into more of the things you complain about. The same goes for good things like health, wealth and happiness. So spend some time in the morning imagining yourself achieving whatever it is that you currently desire. Focus is key in this exercise, so choose a quiet environment where you won’t be disturbed. If you’re having trouble focusing and continually find that your mind has wandered to something else, read about meditation in the following life tip. There is a lot more to this concept, so check out the full article on visualization and the law of attraction here.
37.     Meditate everyday for at least 20 minutes. In this modern world where everyone is so connected to everything else via cell phones, TV and internet, most people rarely enjoy the beauty of silence. The ability to quiet your mind and relax your body is an art and skill that everyone should develop. Simply sit somewhere, preferably in nature, and focus on your breathing or try to think about nothing. This is going to be extremely hard at first! You might find it boring or just plain impossible to think of nothing, but you will get better and you will learn to love it. Post-meditation, you will feel extremely clear-headed and.. well, just plain wonderful. The only way to really understand this sensation is to try it.
38.     Learn to control your mind. What kind of skilled human are you if you cannot even control your own thoughts? While the human mind is described as being a stream of consciousness, that does not mean you can’t decide where your stream flows. Techniques like meditation and the 3 ways to flush out negative thoughts will aid you immensely in learning to control your mind.
39.     Learn to control your emotions. The only person that can make you unhappy is you! You are the one that decides to be affected by the words and actions of others. Realize this so that the next time you experience a negative emotion, you can find the strength within yourself to overcome it.
40.     Take a class in speed reading. Books are full of information that can enhance your knowledge-base, vocabulary and yourself as a person. Speed reading is an easy way to get at this info faster so that you can have more time for other endeavors.
41.     Relax! This one is for you workaholics out there (myself included). Yes, work is very important and productive but you need to take some time to chill out everyday or you are going to burn out faster than a candle with no oxygen. Additionally, you need to reward yourself for a job well done. What’s the use of doing all of that work if you can’t have a little fun from time to time anyways?
42.     Work on making good first impressions. Practice a strong, firm handshake and the small talk that generally goes along with meeting someone for the first time. People won’t know what to think of you if you have nothing more to say beyond “My name is _______, nice to meet you.” Also make sure you remember names, as mentioned previously. Who knows, you may be going into business with or marrying this person you’re meeting for the first time if you make a good impression. Be sure and make an excellent one.
43.   
44.   Learn to use your eyes to their full potential:
45.         Make constant eye contact when in conversation. Looking away (especially down) is a sign of inferiority and uncertainty. Instead, look at your conversation partner dead in the eyes and keep them locked on
46.         Master the piercing stare. You know when someone looks at you and it feels like they can see into your soul? Well that’s not a hereditary characteristic, it just takes practice. Work on sharpening your gaze in the mirror. You’ll know you have it when it’s intimidating to continue looking at yourself
47.         Master the one-eyebrow raise. This one isn’t necessary by any means, but hey, why not? Pick a brow to learn with and go look in a mirror. Raise both of your eyebrows but use your hand to hold down the brow that you want to stay down. This will probably feel very stupid at first but if you keep trying, you will eventually pin down the muscle you need to flex to get that one brow up
48.     Be mysterious. Don’t let off everything about you and definitely leave out some major details. There is something both alluring and mesmerizing about someone who no one knows fully about. I’m not saying to confide in no one or to alienate yourself. Just think James Bond.
49.     Come up with a life mantra. You know, like “Carpe Diem” or “Live life to the fullest,” but not as cliché. Make it something that really hits home with you so that you will actually stick to it. Make sure it’ not so specific that it rarely applies but also not so general that it’s not personal.
50.     Get good at something. Call it a hobby or a passion, whatever it is, just get damn good at it. Your occupation does not count! Make it something that you can practice often enough to excel at. Examples: Magic tricks, surfing, ping-pong, creating short films, and unicycling. It can be anything but I would recommend choosing something that: 1) You are passionate about 2) You can bust out at any moment to display your skills for any discerning crowd. My mind goes immediately to aerobatics and break dancing, but that’s just me.
51.     Work out those abs. Above any other muscle group in the entire body, the abs are the most important. They constitute your core, the center point of your body. Your ability to balance comes almost completely from the strength of your abdominal muscles and balance is vital to performance in any physical activity. Summary: they’re very important. For more info on how to work out your abs, check out this video.
52.     Keep your brain sharp. The majority of people are stuck in ruts. They go to the same job everyday, hang out with the same friends and eat at the same places. While that may feel safe, it’s not the most stimulating lifestyle for your brain. Those synapses have been built up enough, so try something that you do NOT know how to do! Buy a model car kit, master the art of sudoku or crosswords, or go pick up another major at your nearest college. The point is you need to be learning new things to keep your brain honest. Form new synapses by forcing your mind to work in ways it has not worked before. Just like physical workouts, doing too much of the same exercise will eventually give no results. Switch it up!
53.     Read something inspirational right before bed and after waking. This will set get you in a great mood for sleep and for the day. Read anything from a famous speech to your favorite self-improvement book. Try to read something that get’s you really excited in the morning especially so that you’ll leave your house beaming with energy and wonder.
54.     Do what you love.Working for Yourself Guide There is a huge difference between making a life and making a living; which one are you making right now? So many spend their entire lives trying to make as much money as possible so that they can afford to do what they really want later. It makes no sense to settle in life until you’re 65 so that you can retire and do what you want when you’re already WAY past your prime. We only live life once so why wouldn’t you want to spend it pursuing your bliss? To do anything else would be a tragic waste of the freedom you are allowed if you are reading this right now. Follow your bliss and you will be a thousand times more happy than your retirement date and 40+ years younger.
55.     Choose your friends wisely. You are affected far more than you think by the people you spend your time with. Do your friends share your values? Do they encourage you when you speak of your goals and dreams or do they scoff? Make sure the people around you are conducive to the lifestyle you want to lead or you will find yourself being dragged again and again into behavior that distances you from your desires. Friends with a habit of producing negative thoughts will especially hinder you. This can be a hard task to follow through with if you realize you good friend is one of these saboteurs, but you must be firm! Don’t let anyone get in the way of you being all that you can be.
56.     Don’t burn bridges. By that I mean maintain your relationships with people even if you think you are never going to see them again. For example, if you are quitting your job, don’t chew out your boss before leaving! You might run into him/her again later and life and wish you had never severed ties so harshly. You never know when you might need the help of someone you knew in the past. Plus there is already too much hatred in this world, why add more towards the people you interact with?
57.     Keep a journal/diary. It sounds like a very monotonous habit at first, but when you get into it, that little book will become a great way to organize your thoughts and track your growth over the years. Most of us already stay awake in bed at night pondering the events of the day anyways so why not document those thoughts in an organized fashion? That will allow you to look back and observe how your way of thinking has changed over time.
58.     Read “New Pyscho-Cybernetics” by Dr. Maxwell Maltz. This book will explain why the content of your thoughts has such a profound effect on your life through religious, philosophical and scientific arguments. A must read for completely understand who this life thing works.
59.     Learn to use and trust your subconscious/intuition. When you spend time in silence everyday, listen not for words but for a feeling that tells you to do something. Do not mistake your own reasoning and thoughts for those of your subconscious. If you can track where the thought came from, (this thought led to that thought which led to this thought, etc.) then it was not from your subconscious. Learning to accurately discern between the two will allow you to tap into knowledge that you don’t consciously have.
60.     Develop a charismatic personality. You know, the kind of personality that is surrounded by people constantly and is the life of the party. Start visualizing yourself as THAT person. Maybe take a short course on dynamic speaking and learn some jokes. Take the time to learn some party tricks and sleight of hand. Most importantly, believe that you already are charismatic even if you fail at being the center point of the next party. Lie to yourself constantly and tell yourself that you are more warm and gregarious than Ronald Regan. Belief is the first step! Reality will come soon after.
61.     Love is all there is. If you truly want to be a master of life, let love be in your every action. Love your friends, family and enemies alike. This is the most difficult thing to do out of this entire list, which is why it is listed at #50. But if you accomplish this, you will be seen as a leader among everyone that allows hate, envy, disgust and all other negative emotions into their lives. Think Gandhi. Love is so rare in this world when compared to the massive presence of hate that by exuding love, you will immediately see yourself and the people around you change. Love. Love. Love.

Haha

We make the world...................:)

One man's idea.....................:)

I was driving in the rain today, and as I reached the roundabout, I saw that it was flooded. There was water everywhere, must have been 2 feet high. Well everyone was trying to cross it but got stuck midway. I was on my bike and I knew it was gonna be really difficult to cross it. But I had no other option, I had to go that way. As I started my bike, I realized there was one other way I could take to reach where I'm supposed to. It would take me about 10 minutes more, but I would atleast reach there for sure. So I turned around and went the other way. I then looked back towards the people stuck on the flooded road. And then I noticed a few people following me and taking an alternative way towards their destinations. 

I guess its just one man's idea in the beginning and then many others follow..............................

Awesome quote.......:)

Golden rules of living......

1.     If you open it, close it.
2.     If you turn it on, turn it off.
3.     If you unlock it, lock it up.
4.     If you break it, admit it.
5.     If you can't fix it, call in someone who can.
6.     If you borrow it, return it.
7.     If you value it, take care of it.
8.     If you make a mess, clean it up.
9.     If you move it, put it back.
10.     If it belongs to someone else, get permission to use it.
11.     If you don't know how to operate it, leave it alone.
12.     If it's none of your business, don't ask questions.

Being an atheist is awesome............

Being an Atheist is the best feeling that one can ever have. 
 
You don't have to be afraid of anyone. 
You don't have to worry about being good or bad.
You don't have to think before doing anything.
You don't have to worship everyday.
You don't have to bow in front of anyone.
You don't have to blame anyone else for something bad.
You don't have to give credit to anyone else for something good.
You don't have to believe that you can't control your own life.
You don't have to believe in something that is just in the books.
You don't have to listen to all the crazy people called "Priests".
You don't have to do stupid things to please someone.
You don't have to spare your precious time to visit so called holy places.
You don't have to believe that you can't change your so called destiny.
You don't have to feel helpless and keep hoping for better things all you life.

And the biggest of them all:


You don't have to be stupid................................[No Offense to believers]

I am an Atheist...............

A big lesson.........

I'm not afraid..............

I'm going down a road that I know is long,
I've made a lot of choices, each one wrong.
No one could help me, coz I didn't care,
My car tires were all flats, and I had no spare. [laugh...]
People tried to stop me, even the ones I didn't know,
they couldn't stop me, couldn't even make me slow.
I kept moving, down that dark lane,
taking all the beating, all that pain.
I did it coz I knew, there will be a way out,
I could feel that, I could hear my heart shout.
My mind brings some bad thoughts, but I don't listen,
Coz I am a soldier and this is my mission.
I'm off to the unending path, darkness all around,
But I'm not backing out, till I reach a safer ground.
I know I can win this fight, come out a king,
And once I'm able to beat this darkness, I'll enjoy and sing


"I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid, to take a stand, to take a stand
Everybody, everybody, come take my hand........................."

My mind is everything.................

Beware............

Beware of your thoughts, they become your words.
Beware of your words, they become your actions.
Beware of your actions, they become your habits.
Beware of your habits, they become your character.
Beware of your character, it becomes your destiny................

Funny side of Atheism................:)

The belief that there was nothing and nothing happened to nothing and then nothing magically exploded for no reason, creating everything and then bunch of everything magically rearranged itself for no reason what so ever into self-replicating bits which then turned into dinosaurs, then dinosaurs vanished for no reason and then again there was nothing, then magically something emerged as something and then again started replicating for no reason and then somehow became human beings and then these human beings for no reason started replicating and turned the world into what it is now and that too for no reason..................

Compared to what????

Live..............

For what it's worth, its never too late or too early to be whoever you want to be. There's no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or worst of it. I hope you see the best of it, you see the things that startle you. I hope you feel things you've never felt before. I hope you meet people with different point of view. I hope you live a life that you're proud of. And if you're not, then I hope you have the strength to start all over again and make it the best. I hope you try to be responsible for your own actions, and learn to behave like a mature human being and face your mistakes and do things right the next time.I hope you become what your loved ones want you to be. I hope you live.................................

Question everything..........

You're not dead.....live your life......

I was reading a book the other day, it was about a guy who witnessed a major blast but survived with minor injuries. He was so frightened by the shock of it that it took him weeks to recover from the trauma. He could not get his mind to focus on other things, the only thought he had was "What if he had died". He kept thinking that no matter what. He kept thinking what would his gf, his parents be going through if he dies that day. He kept thinking about all the people who dies or were wounded that day, and whose families would be crying, depressed, sad losing their loved ones. And that made me think what if that was me. 

What if that was someone who's really close to me? How would I feel? Would I be broken or porbably dead? 

Then I think, but its not me right now. And I guess no one relly knows when and how death would be in front of us looking straight into our eyes giving us no other option. Right?

When i realize this I'm not afraid anymore. I'm stronger because I know that feeling would no longer stop me from living a crazy life, full of fun, full or challenges. I would know that death is just something that can come anytime, so worrying would not reall help, it won't make it go away. So if you have been through something that hurt you, or that broke your heart, just remember death has to come sometime and that shouldn't stop you from living a wonderful life............

Is it Worth it??????

Is life really worth living,
When there is no one to share it with?
Is a risk really worth taking,
If there's no chance of you getting caught?
Is a good education really worth having,
If once school's over your never gonna use it?
Is love worth finding
If you know it will end with a broken heart?
Is working hard really worth it,
when you know you're gonna lose it anyway?
why waste time and effort on things that are not forever?
Why think about things that really don't matter?
Why lose your mind over things that you might not get, ever?
Its a riddle that no one has figured out, coz I guess this life ain't really the same for everyone..............

The burn of passion.........

The burn of passion
The fire of hate
Which one is good?
How do we tell?
They both burn true
Inside of us
With the pain
Or the love
Some can tell the difference
Others can't
Some think they're the same
Just described in different ways
I believe you can't have one
Without the other
And you must have both
To be complete
What about you?
What do you think?


                                                                                             By: "The crazy girl"

Validation........

Your Life, My Life, Our Life, New Life.........Nice poem

I am so lucky come look at me
See what I have see what I’ve achieved
Come listen for a while and listen real good
Will tell you how it started but the start was not good

Once upon a time a long while ago
There once lived a very scared little girl
Bubbly and bright filled with delight
Taken from her pure innocent light
But she grew up and grew very strong
Took on the world and all that belong

Then came a guy who cut her in two
Beaten her silly till she was black and blue
She overcome this and learned to move on
Even though something precious was taken along

The next chapter started and something new
Along come those precious darling little dews
Everything rosy everything tickty boo
But she changed to suit the needs of you
She lost herself and all that she knew
For people being happy is what she thought she was to do
She denied herself the light and the truth

She was happy and content
But it all became about being you
She fought and she fought hard
She mingled threw painted on her smile
The sadness came and rowing to
This she never wanted for her darling little dews

Fighting back and getting herself strong
Learning to live with whatever was to become
She gave it her all she tried all she could
But finally gave the will to fight

Now it’s new and time to get on
She’s now got friends who helped her grow back being strong
Gave her confidence with grace and a smile
Told her what she needed to go that extra mile
Now she’s studying and growing strong each day
Her darling little dews with beaming glaze
They see her smile they see her laugh
Because now she’s on the right path

So it’s not all sad it’s a learning curve
Be yourself and never controlled
Not by yourself not by your love
Be happy be smiley be who you want to be
Cause will tell you something now
I’m finally back being me


nicky joyce

Love your life........

Enjoy the ride.......

Purpose of life......

Rebel....

The only way to deal with this unfree world and life is that you become so absolutely free that even your very existence becomes an act of rebellion............

What if the world ends????

Everyone these days keeps talking about the world ending in the year 2012, but has anyone given a thought to how it would be when it ends? I wonder how everything would be. Whether it will be an earthquake shaking the hell out of this earth, a volcano burning everything that it touches, a flood that will wipe the human population into the oceans or a meteor shower that will pierce through the earth's surface and break the core???? 
Its fascinating, isn't it??
Well whatever it would be, I'm sure it will be so sudden that no one would even get a chance to pray. 
It sometimes seems a little funny how years of work and efforts would vanish in a few seconds. I'm sure people are working really hard to find out ways to survive the worst of situations but can we really survive something that's probably big enough to destroy the whole human race?? I guess the only way we can survive would be to learn to adapt in an atmosphere of another planet or maybe the moon. But i'm sure its gonna take a lot of time for us to be able to do that. So If the world ends this year, prepare yourselves....................

Survival of the world........

I don't know how the world will survive with all the crimes, corruption, killings, conspiracies etc. It's all a big mess humans have created on the Earth. And why? For money. What was it. It was just a piece of paper or some metallic coin, but who would've thought it would turn out to be so big that it would turn humans against humans, countries against countries. But I guess that's what human nature is, to own as much as one can through hook or crook. I guess it was there even when there was no money, those days the fight was for the resources and power. I remember reading in history, the aim of a few people who believed themselves to be superior than others was to rule others. It was all because of that feeling of superiority. And what happened once they became the king, they tortured the ruled and made them do work for them. And now that the horde is for money, people make the employed work their asses off so that they can get richer and the same feeling of superiority can be satisfied. 

Isn't a human equal to another human?? I guess that's a question that can create a lo of controversy. But really is it fair to downgrade some people just because they don't have money or maybe just because they can't buy things that the rich ones can. Some people look down upon others just because they are of a different religion [In India] without even using their so called superior brains and giving thought to what is religion. It was just a stupid thing created by a group of people again just to downgrade some people and come out as superior and powerful. And it has strengthened its roots to such an extent that there are have been epic battles fought just because of difference in religion. They say humans are more intelligent than animals but I don't really see that here. Or maybe we are so consumes in our selfish interests that we fail to understand the difference between what is right and what is wrong. I guess if we can spare a few minutes and think about what we are doing and what should be done, we can still save the world.

The Road to Peace

This is me........

I wanna stay bad, thats what I like about me,
got no-one to look after, no-one to think about,
I hope people understand, the one thing I want,
My life, my time and my happiness.
People tried to change me, make me a good man,
but who's good these days, you just cant survive.
I try to stay alone, out of all troubles,
but people try to tell me how to be better.
I tell them all the time, I like being bad,
coz when they see good, they expect a lot more.
I don't wanna be someone they want me to be,
I wanna be a person who's self-confident and free.
I don't care if they call me rude, or maybe devil,
coz thats who I am and thats who I'll be...............

If tomorrow you're without me........

If tomorrow you're without me,
and I’m not there to hold you,
please remember that I still love you,
cause I know you would love me too.

If tomorrow you're without me,
and you feel lost and blue,
Read these words I’ve written,
These will help to see you through.

If tomorrow you're without me,
Don't cry or feel alone,
Someday your pain will go away,
sadness replaced by fond memories.

Don't miss me and carry on,
Coz I'll be somewhere safe,
Know that I'll always be there,
to keep you safe, keep you warm.

So don't worry if tomorrow You're without me.......

Insane Gravity Defying Skills.....

Freerunning......:)

Why do people believe in Fate???

They say "It's all fate" but does anyone even know whether it's real or not? Well, I don't really believe its real because for me everything happens when I do it and not because its fate. When I was in school I got really good marks, not because it was fate but because I worked my ass off for it. In college I met a girl, not because it was fate but because I went and talked to her. And when I passed college, I got a good job that too because I went for it. I don't get it when something good happens, people say its Fate but when something bad happens, they start blaming the actions of the person it happens to. And sometimes people start blaming Fate for bad things and appreciate the actions of the person for something that he/she achieves. Its really stupid. 


Anyone with a brain can understand that whenever something happens there is always an action behind it. Nothing can happen in this world unless you do something for it. People don't even think about it because they blindly believe what they are taught by others. In old times, people used to believe in Fate because they did not have science. When a person died, they believed it to be destined. But now that science has come to life, we know that there are diseases and other things that can cause death. Still people believe in Fate. A few years back I used to think that it was because of illiteracy that people didn't know about science or were not aware about various things that can cause illness or death. But I realized that its not illiteracy because a lot of educated people believe in Fate. And just because of that people living a miserable life don't make an effort to make their life better. They think its Fate and they can't do anything about it. Everyone knows there is no way an invisible force can change your life. Then why?? Why do people still believe in Fate?? Is it because they don't have the courage to take a stand for themselves or is it because they don;t trust their own actions??

That's all I want to do.....

Changes suck......

When you feel like you've got a hang of life, it changes. They say "change is the necessity of life" but can someone tell me why?? There are definitely a few things that make you feel bored if they remain the same but we don't want most of the things in life to change. Our friends, our family, or society, our school, our college etc. but they change. Why?


It's really hard to understand why everything has to change and why we have top move on. By the time we get used the things, they get changed. Once we start to adjust in a workplace, we have to shift. Once we get to know some people, we have to move to new ones. Once we start going out with someone, something happens and we have to move on. All this really sucks. I think life should be short and simple with no major changes. That sounds like a happy life.

Don't run....

Life is all about the present......

Yes, life can be real pain in the ass sometimes but that doesn't mean we quit. I think life is all about moving ahead and not looking back on the things that happened or the people you've lost. We just gotta face one challenge after another and try to come out as the winner in each of them. I know sometimes it's so hard that you tend to back out because of the pain and the suffering but that's fine, its not like it would stop throwing challenges at you.....:)
We learn from our mistakes and experiences and then use that knowledge further to move ahead. Some incidents leave a painful mark on our heart/mind but we still move on and push those bad memories back so they don't haunt us in future. I guess that's the rule if we wanna live a good and happy life. We should try to forget anything and everything that hurts us or brings out the pain coz that's just something that has happened, there is no point in holding those thoughts. 


Life should be about living the present and not thinking about the past and worrying about the future...........:)

Need motivation???

Life of a rat..........

We humans live a rat's life, we not only get used to it, we find it hard to accept that we all are a part of a rat's race.


I once read a story about a rat that made a heroic effort to break free from his life and attained freedom. Once fine morning, the rat woke up and decided that it no longer wanted to live a life of a rat. It had heard of a "Mountain of Liberty" and of those before him had achieved freedom by reaching it's Peak. The rat undertook the hazardous journey and reached the very top, but had to pay a heavy price as anyone who offered to help him on the way asked for a pound of its flesh. But the rat was overjoyed with the newly earned freedom, even though it lost its tail, one leg and one eye.


We all lead a rat's life, looking to lead a life of purpose but our fears hold us back from doing that. On our journey, many come and offer us help for some price, some trick us and the others help us move ahead on our path. It is upto us to decide whether we want to take the risks and live a life of purpose or sentence ourselves to a life of a rat.

How bad do you want it.......

Gotta learn to do this....:))

No views required....:)

Have you ever wondered how people say "He deserved better than this"?? I'm sure you have. Well atlease I have a million times. But has anyone heard those same people tell you what's better than that.........


I hate it when people give their views about someone or something when they're not required to or specially when no one gives a shit about their views. I just don't understand why they have to be the ones to say what's good and what's bad for someone. Why do they have to stick their nose in someone's else's business when they don't know shit about anything. They should try to get better things for themselves than others if they really know something, but they instead prefer to offer free useless advises to someone who doesn't want them. 


When will they realize that they should keep their themselves and keep their mouth shut????

Choose not to fall...:)

Life????

Scientifically life does not have a meaning. There is no real purpose or goal that we must achieve in life however We can create our goals like happiness, fame etc,  I know this is really confusing but think about it. Is there anything or anyone that can tell us what we need to do when we are born. Or is the saying "Nature's goal is to reproduce" true?? 
Lets say we believe that and we create lives then what, they create more lives and so on. Is that it?? Is that why we are here?? Is there nothing else that we are meant to achieve?? Well if you think about it, I guess the only goal of life is to survive, you choose the way you want to do it. You decide what you want to do to get the basic necessities in order to survive or maybe live a happy life. But that is it. Again the smae question "Is this all we are supposed to do?"...........

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger......

Be envious and win...:)

It's hard to succeed in life with all that competition in every field, but there is a way that can make you perform way above your own expectations and then maybe you can have the chance to get to the top. I remember an incident in school, it was the physical test before the exams. We were supposed to sprint and complete some distance in some specific time. Well we were made to run individually. I ran the usual way and the coach was really disappointed because I took quite long, but well I tried my best. Then he game me another chance but this time he made one more guy make the run with me. Well I ran the usual way again, but to my shock I did way better than before. I realized it was because I had competition and I knew I had to do better than him. It's quite the same in life. If you have strong competition, in order to succeed you perform better than you would if you were the only one in the race. So if you want to get to the top, you need to envy someone and you will see yourself working harder and exceeding your limits.


Go hit it hard....and remember being envious isn't really that bad....:)

Life so unexpected....:))

I guess sometimes life takes a real sharp turn and puts you in a situation where you can't really do anything. The best way out is to go through it. It's like you get stuck in a desert and you can't find water, what do you do?? Do you quit and lie there for the vultures or you go ahead and find water till the time you can??


Well I would definitely prefer the 2nd...:))

Don't write me off just yet........:)

Make your life worthwhile........:)

To make your life worthwhile, you need to take your own decisions and live the way you want to. If someone else makes decisions on your behalf then it's not your life, it's theirs. And if you have friends who you can trust, from whom you can take advices in order to make hard choices then its like icing on a cake. You don't need a million people around you to make your life good, its just you need to be content with what you have and what you get. And this is possible only when you make decisions on your own. So go out there and live you life...........:))

Pain is so close to pleasure......:))

Follow your nose.......:))

Everyone in this world loves their families and want them to be happy.....Ofcourse you wanna see them happy too and for that you can go to any extent but what if what if you have to sacrifice your own desires in order to fulfill their wishes...would you do that or fight for it???

Well I think you should fight not because its your life and you should have the right to live the way you want to. And if they love you and care about you, they would accept the decision because that makes you happy. But if they don't accept it and try to force their decision on you, then maybe they don't really deserve your sacrifice anyways. If they think that you would make a mistake and fail if you live your own way and just because they have more experience, they would be right. Well then they are wrong. because everyone knows their own life way better than anyone else and they know what's right and what's wrong. And there is no one else who can tell them how to live and what to do better than themselves.......

So if you think you're doing the right think by following others and living your life the way they want it, then you're wrong and you should fight for it and follow your own heart.......:))

That ain't me......:)

You can try lock me up,
you can try to break me down...
but I stay strong,
It’s my own throne.....
cant stop now cause that aint me.........:)))

Zombie....:)

Nice body....:)

Roller-coaster ride......:))

I am sure you have once in your life thought about giving up because it's no going good..........well that's ok, I guess everyone does that. But if you think positive, you can survive any kind of situation and that too without a scratch. 


Sometimes life gets too hard and tough on us but that doesn't mean its gonna stay that way. If there are some bad times, there are real good times too so don't ever give up coz it's gonna pass and then you will start enjoying your life again. With each challenge that you get you should make yourself strong and more confident to face more challenges and succeed. Because life is all about taking risks, facing challenges and winning battles. Its a roller-coaster ride that you cannot miss, so instead of feeling scared and backing off just go ahead and enjoy it......:))

5 imp tips to improve yourself....:)

If you have thought about becoming more productive, here are some tips to help you get going — or get back on board:

Have clear goals: This helps in motivating you and thus you know what you need to achieve.
Get a system: You need to organize and create a process to reach at your goal, this allows you to help you stay on track.
Get up early: Getting up early gives you the extra time to do what you need to do when everyone's asleep.
Exercise: It gives you the energy and removes stress so that you can concentrate on your goal.
Meditate: This also improves you focus and concentration.

Follow these and you would have no problems in your professional life......:))

If you wanna win, you gotta take the hits as well...:)

If you want success.................Go Get It.

How bad do you want it?????

Take control.....:)

Noone should have the guts to tell you how you should live your life, that's how your attitude should be. Its you life and you have the right to enjoy it and make it the way you want it. I hate the people who follow other people's advices and then cry about that their life turns out to be. I think its best if you follow your own head and so that incase you end up creating a mess, you have the controls to put it back on track. If you wanna take the road that other's set you on, then you should have the balls to accept the consequence. I don't think its right to blame other if something goes wrong coz it was you who made the final decision and not them, they just gave you an option. Its upto you what path you choose and no one else should have the right to make decisions for you coz its you who gotta pay for the mistakes and not them. .......You have the steering wheel in your own hand so take control and rule the world...:))

I am the devil...:)

People say I'm evil because I don't follow any religion and I don't give a f*** about anyone else but me. Well I say I am a real human and I like to be happy. I hate people who worry too much about what others have to say about them or what other think about them. Well I don't. And that's because I know it doesn't matter. Why should I care about what others think about me. It's not like that's gonna have an effect on my life. I like to live my own life the way I want and not ruin it by listening to their criticism. If me taking my own road makes me evil, then I am the Devil and I love being one......:))

Its all in our mind.....

I always wonder what if there were no countries, no continents, no religion, no caste, no race, would earth be a better place to live or would there still be chaos just like it is today??? I guess there will be because all the mess that we see is not because of these differences but because of the feeling of being superior in our minds. And this is still gonna be there coz its human nature to look down upon others. Till the time this doesn't change there is always gonna be hell on Earth. It's our mind that needs to change. We need to start living our own life instead of interfering in others and should stop criticising others.

No love.....

:))

I layed down last night,
I Closed my eyes gently
I layed there and thought
How good life used to be.
I remembered all the good times
I remembered all the bad
I remember you telling me
This was the best time you've ever had.
The days we went out walking
The things you always told me
I look back and I wonder
Where we ever meant to be?
I know all the things you told me
Was nothing more than a lie
But still it hurt more than anything
When you sadly said goodbye.
I thought I done everything right
I guess I was so wrong,
I cant stop wondering
How you led me on so long.
The days feel like seasons
The hours feel like years
Everytime I catch myself thinking of you
I always seem to tear.
You made me so happy
In ways you never knew.
I thought you were my best friend
Now look what you go and do.
I told you when I met you,
I had trust issues
You made it so easy to trust you
You made me believe something that wasnt true.
For this I must say thank you
For giving me some strength I need
To let you go completly
And move on with my life for eternity.