Believe in Yourself

In life there is one thing that everyone seeks and that is comfort. For that, people depend upon destiny and think that everything that happens to them is pre-planned and is for a purpose. They think that if they have never committed a crime and have always done good deeds then they will get good in return. But have they ever thought whether they get the food that they eat or do the work for it. This amazes me that after everything one does for himself in his family he still thinks that the things are happening because of someone else. I sometimes laugh at the fact that people pray before going to an exam or an interview when they know that they will succeed only if they know the things that will be asked. No supernatural power will come and help them out if they are not able to complete the requirements. Also when someone faces a problem he/she starts to pray to god or depends on destiny to get him out of the situation but have you ever given a thought to the fact how many times a supernatural power comes to get you out of it.
In your busy schedule just spare 15 minutes and think about all the problems that you ever faced and how you got out of them and just count out the number of times you did not have to anything and you just made it. And if you give it a deep thought you will realize that it is always you who takes an action. So why think of it as you destiny instead of taking the responsibility for it.
Now talking about the good times in your life. Again the same way think about the good/happy times in your life and just check how many times did you get happiness because of your own actions. And if you check you will realize that the answer would be "ALWAYS". So why thank someone/something for the things that you worked for.
By doing this i am just trying to make you realize that the actions that you take in life decide that results or simply make your life. Just try this and you will actually start loving yourself. If you start believing it you will be able to solve your problems easily and start enjoying your happy moments more than before. I do and if one person can do it then why not all. Afterall we all are humans.